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Action Is A Muscle | #10
Action Is A Muscle
No. 10 — read time 2 minutes
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I'm fascinated by the topic of action.
Not action movies like The Terminator of those Jason Statham series where he drives nice cars off bridges wearing tailored Armani suits.
Action is in taking action in our daily lives.
Why do some people achieve noteworthy and remarkable things in life while others meander through their days without much progress?
There is a ton of writing on the importance of mindset, SMART goals, overcoming procrastination, and putting together vision boards. And I don't take anything away from all of that.
But at some point, you need to take action—and so many never do.
Taking Action Seems Hard
We like to think that taking action is this big scary thing and come up with all sorts of excuses.
I'll do it some other day
I have other pressing priorities
Figuring out "how to do it" is a lot of work right now
I'm tired
Yesterday, I asked my followers on Twitter (already past 3,000–if you're on of them THANK YOU) this question:
In ONE WORD, what separates winners from losers?
— Tom Harari (@tomharari)
1:52 PM • Feb 17, 2023
It got 113 comments. The most common:
Action
Grit
Discipline
Not only do I have smart readers, they're spot on.
Taking action is the only way.
Fortunately, there is a science-based way to take action on your dreams and goals.
Step 1: Action Is A Muscle
What the research shows is that taking action can be developed like a muscle.
And if you've spent any time exercising you know that muscles grow through consistent stress placed of them over time.
Using that analogy, we understand that to mean we need to be taking action daily.
But on what?
Step 2: Start With The Smallest Thing
Action on the smallest thing is crucial. The way to start on the smallest thing is to recognize that we have a tendency to over analyze. To over think.
It needs to be instinctual. Gut based. Off the cuff.
If you wanted something right now, what is the first thing, the smallest thing, you could do to get the ball rolling?
Often times we talk ourselves out of doing that one small thing because of fear.
Fear of the ball rolling.
Because the ball rolling means it gets momentum and then we're afraid that going after this thing will be time consuming, or not what we actually wanted in the first place, or whatever stupid justification we make in our heads.
But of course you know that is utter nonsense.
Step 3: Keep The Momentum
The beautiful part about developing the action muscle and starting with the smallest, easiest thing, is that you start to pick up momentum.
It’s easier to steer a moving ship than one that’s sitting in the docks.
Once you get momentum you can start doing all the other things productivity gurus tell you to do.
SMART goals.
Bullet Journals.
OKRs.
All of these are wonderful. But you need to solve the cold start problem.
And cold starts require an initial spark, not a planning by committee waterfall chart.
For more on this topic, I recommend taking a few minutes to watch this TEDx Talk on The Science of Taking Action. It's wonderful:
So today, my challenge to you is—what is one small action step you can take to get the ball rolling on your dreams?
If you're brave enough, reply back here and let me know.
(I'll keep it our secret).
-Tom
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